Alden Village

Whether picking a permanent residence for a special needs family member or a facility that offers day services, you want to make sure you pick the right place that fits their needs in a safe, respectful environment where they will be comfortable with the staff. But where do you start?

First, do your research. Look online for ratings from government agencies if available, or just reviews from other families. Other organizations that serve special needs clients may also be able to point you in the right direction.

You want a facility that has a history of high standards of care and provides all of the services your loved one requires. Build a list of such facilities in your area, and schedule tours or meetings with the managers. During your visits, note any maintenance or cleanliness issues and pay attention to how staff interact with clients. Don’t hesitate to ask questions about their policies and best practices.

Now it’s decision time. You will need to balance all of the information you gather with the needs of your relative to pick the ideal place for them. Don’t stress too much though! The majority of facilities for the developmentally disabled are professional, compassionate places with great staff. To further put your mind at ease, know that there are things you can do to help prevent neglect and abuse of a vulnerable individual.

If they are taking up residence in the facility, stay in close contact with your loved one so you are able to monitor their care and they can tell you about anything questionable they experience. If your family member will still live with you, talk to them every day about their activities at the facility and watch for any changes in behavior after spending time there.

There are signs of abuse you can watch for. The following may not apply to every case, but will give you something to start with as you educate yourself on other indications of abuse:

• Unusual violent or withdrawn behavior
• Frequent trouble sleeping
• Unexplained injuries like bruises, burns, or scars
• Instances of wandering or elopement
• Weight loss or malnourishment not due directly to an illness
• Frequent trips to the emergency room or doctor
• Poor hygiene or unwashed clothes or hair
• Frequently misplaced or lost personal items
• A lack of basic necessities, including utilities, water, and food
• A dirty room or bathroom

If you notice any unusual, troubling behavior in your loved one or witness staff causing potential or actual harm to a special needs individual, take immediate action. Document your experiences and observations and take the information to management. They should listen to you and take your concerns seriously, implementing any necessary measures to fix the issue.

However, if they dismiss your concerns or fail to take any action, it may be time to seek legal counsel and determine if your loved one’s rights have been violated under the law.